Dear Cosmo, We are pleased you have published an article on women with disabilities: 12 Things you should know before dating a woman in Wheelchair.
We women on wheels are not used to being portrayed as “dateable” in the media, so thank you for choosing to be inclusive!
I am sure there are many more “things you should know”, but the most important is: Don’t assume anything. Every disability, even woman with the exact same diagnosis can have different abilities and desires.
Take the time to learn what we have in common and ask us what we like to do for fun. She was a Former Dancer, Accident Survivor (C 6-7 Spinal Cord Injury resulting in incomplete Quadriplegia 1985), College grad (BBA Finance 1991 U of Miami), with a background in Sales and Marketing and Non Profit Development and Management.
It’s sticky, wrecks the sheets, and, if done frequently, will give you Type II diabetes. Not being able to see means more spilling, which means more licking up the mess." This is proof positive that no one ever tries these things. “Dab some peppermint oil on your neck and between your breasts. Use "your electric toothbrush" or "your i Phone [when your vibrator is out of batteries]." To which I’ll just say, have you ever tried to lie to the Genius at the Apple Store who’s fixing your phone? If they hear any screams, they'll assume it's the movie." This will also create a relaxed ambiance. [On film selection] "Avoid anything that'll cause hearty belly laughs, like — a jiggly tummy won't make you feel good." That just makes me sad. "When he's least expecting it, tell your man you need some change.
Here, it’s made more grotesque than usual by context: on the previous page, they advocate turning off the AC because a made-up-sounding chemical in your sweat boosts arousal. "Keep a spray bottle filled with ice water next to the bed, and give each other a strategic spritz to extend the encounter… "Use silicone-based lube to give each other pre-nooky rubdowns." Bonus: it’s water-resistant, so it’ll never come off! "Mix one tablespoon of saliva (the kind deep in your throat works best — its viscosity makes it a good substitute for lube) with one tablespoon of water to stretch the spit." They don't really explain if you're supposed to whisk it together in a bowl in the kitchen, or if you should just hock a loogie onto his pre-moistened junk, but I trust your judgment. Studies found that the smell of mint has a revitalizing effect. The smell of cinnamon buns increases men's blood flow 'down there.'" Good hard science from 's resident M. Then stick your hand in his pocket and touch his penis through the fabric, pretending that you're really digging around for that coinage you need.
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Throughout my long tenure writing Ridiculous Tips For A Miserable Sex Life, I've taken aim at various targets, but one publication stands out as a bastion of weird and wacky sex advice — always chipper, always in a numbered list, and always ill-advised.