With social media use being at it’s highest ever, there is no reason you can’t get a hold of someone at a moments notice, from Facebook to Twitter, e-mail and of course the phone. We did a lot of research on this, and this is what seems to be the way to handle dating in the new age of technology.
Especially with all of the Smartphones and Iphones and all of the creative Apps. Before the First Date Do NOT call him if he didn’t give you his number.
Just send him a text saying you will get back to him, or don’t do anything, and call him back later.
It is still too early to be the emergency contact person in his life.
Still -- there is no reason to make phone and text game mistakes Text game, especially, is the easiest area of game to do well. I don't know whether it was because of your body language, or your tonality, or your choice of what to say, or a million other factors.
There are so few variables and so much is under your control. And if I asked you to describe all of those factors to me, your description will be limited and biased by your perception and misperceptions and how you communicate with me. Neither does your age, your inherent social skills, or a million other factors. So..you're not already great at phone and text game there is no excuse.
If you are with your friends at a movie/meeting/party, don’t step out to take his call or call him back.
Those first few dates of wonder can be such a fun time, and he loves a chase. If you just made the plans, or initiated the last call, then you should let him pull some weight and make the call. If you make the plans again, you will never know if he is into seeing you.
DO call him if he gave you his number, card or flirtatiously put his number in your phone without you knowing, or any other way he gave you his digits. If he doesn’t call, then you know it is time to let it go. This may be hard for some of you, because what is the harm to just chat?
You want to leave some mystery for him to figure out.
You can tell him that story or ask about his grandmother on the second date. When You Are Dating Each Other When you are dating him or starting to see each other, means you have been hanging out at least once a week for about 4 – 6 weeks.