And even if you want to meet a good friend, you’d wonder if your boyfriend or husband would be okay with you meeting a friend. Chances are, you’re being tricked into submission by an insecure man.
And within a few weeks of dating this new guy, I started seeing the same symptoms that I had seen in my earlier boyfriend, great guys who give great advice, but eventually turn into men who can never be pleased.
And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.
I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.
Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.