Work on you and if he fights to win you back great but if he doesn't you can only keep going it will get better even my situation will in time.. I see this post was a year ago and before I say anything to you, I wanted to see how your feelings and the situation have evolved.I am going through exactly what you described and this is why I am reaching out to you. I hope you get this message girl and hope your heart has healed...And if you were him and saw that I had one now too how would you feel? Only make an online profile for the purposes of seriously finding someone. I cried and told him how much I love him and that it didn't have to be this way.Please help me understand why someone would go about things this way. Don't do it to make him jealous, or to find a rebound. I could see he couldn't do this anymore but was having a hard time saying it all.The last thing he said was just an angry response that affirming that what he said was true. I wish he still felt even a fraction of the love for me that I feel for him but I think the amount of fighting may have just killed it entirely. Or should I suggest maybe a future friendship when things settle a bit? It doesn't matter how long your profile is up there or to what extent you could have allowed. Maybe he will realise his behaviour and try to win me back..(even though i would always want more and it would be very difficult and i don't even know if either of us could do that? But you can't control what may this other guy may think, do you? A member told me If they truly love you they will fight for you that's true love but if they don't do we actually want to spend any more time on loving them and getting nothing back or moving on and becoming stronger. It also sounds like you are blaming yourself to much it is him that has the issues not you.. Listen I went thru this all my other half said we were done and made a profile etc, A few days later cooled down and got over it Just give it time and don't be pushey you will be ok everyone come back Hey Hun, How are you now?But i knew it was complicating things so i told him we had to stop..we entered the no contact rule.On a side note in the past that he admitted that when single or trying tofet over someone he goes on online dating sites because its a good distraction, etc...
I mean, it wasn’t going to be stored in the Louvre and protected with motion-sensitive lasers. Somewhere out there in the dense fog of single-dom, two people are updating their profiles with sentences like ‘I like huggggggggggs!!!!!!!
Trust me, it's easier to suffer the old fashioned way rather than making things even more complicated. He said relationships are work but shouldn't be this much of a struggle.
He seemed to be having a lot of issues, a lot of which he started to take out on me. I came up with ways to fix this communication breakdown, which we both agreed were working. He said he loves me and wants to be with me he just doesn't know if he can anymore.
I gathered my things, gave him back my key to his house, and left. Then I thought about asking him if he would like to try to be friends someday although it's too soon. And he has moved on or at least it appears that he is trying to. Is the letter or asking for friendship down the road a bad idea? He just made an online profile after the break up, correct? Just like stupidly you made a profile, guys can do it too. We didn't have an online or long distance relationship or anything like that.
I was under the assumption that you and he hadn't met before. After break up, when you are depression, you just make a profile, go out to make feel good about yourself. It was in person and we did just about everything together. You'l just say that, you are still in love with your ex and not ready for a relationship right? He'l think, if this girl loved her ex, why the hack she made a dating profile the very next day after break up? So my point is, stop making conclusion because you can never know the truth unless you ask. Sometimes things get so bogged down, that even when you try to work hard at fixing things, there's so much negativity clouding your mind, with all the issues here and there, you can't do anything.