If you want women to be approaching you, you have to pay attention to your style, your grooming and your smell.
A good haircut, keeping any facial hair neatly trimmed and clean, stylish clothes that more approachable than the sloppy-looking guy in the baggy sweatshirt with the stains and the jeans that reek of cigarette smoke with bed-head and three days’ worth of stubble. Because it takes advantage of what’s known as the Halo Effect, a cognitive bias that causes our overall impression of someone to affect how we think about them. This doesn’t mean that you need to be rocking a three-piece suit at all hours, but if you’re going out of the house, you want to make sure to take the time to look sharp.
Plus, the guy glowering in the corner is going to seem far more intimidating and judgmental than the one laughing and having fun with his friends – another thing that makes women less likely to approach.
For example: a woman who wants to signal interest in someone will often make eye contact, look away, make eye contact again – usually from a lowered gaze – and give a smile. She has no idea if she’s going to be welcomed and is just as worried about being humiliated as you would be approaching a group of women.out, smile and orient your body towards her; this indicates that yes, you saw her noticing you and you’re interested in her. Want to make sure she understands that you’re open to being approached? Every time it seems like she’s about to go off on her own, someone else comes in and starts talking to her. So if you want her to approach you, you have to make sure to give her an opening. You may step away to grab a drink, check out something you saw earlier, check your text messages or just grab some air…Give her a more visible sign – guys giving the eyebrow flash is a long-recognized sign of interest, as is a nod that yes, you see her and you’re open to talking. There will also be plenty of times when you may want to be slightly more direct and give a head nod indicating that she should come over. But now you’re aware you’re verging into creeper territory, so you walk a way and hope to catch her later… but deliberately separating yourself from everybody gives her an opportunity to come up to you when she doesn’t feel like she has to work up even yourself.As I’ve said before: there’s being good looking, and then there’s being attractive.One is about your physical looks and the other is about your overall presentation.