And dude, here's one fact you very symbolically skipped over: You might not have known he had a girlfriend when you fell in love with him.
Get back in the Safari Jeep, and drive away from the Hyena. What do you guys think is crossing the line for a married guy?
Married guys who never flirt are a freaking mystery to me. On the other hand, guys who are died-in-the-wool flirts will always flirt, even when they're married. She trusts me that I won't go over the line, and I trust me that I won't go over the line. The thing you have to realize is that you're in it for different reasons.
(Because he's, you know, a rabid hyena.) And now she's all like *Why does he keep pursuing me when he's married and he's a nice guy who doesn't just seem to be looking for sex? There are two kinds of married guys: married guys who flirt and married guys who don't. I respect them tremendously, but I do not envy them. Maybe if I had more self-esteem or something I wouldn't need to do it, but the fact is I love it. My wife knows about it, and at first she really hated it. And she remembered that's why she liked me in the first place and that I will never change, and that she's the person I like flirting with the most and am committed to entirely. You'll have periods where you're flirting more seriously, and then one of you will pull away. And inevitably it'll happen again — unless you start dating someone you fall in love with, or his wife finds out, or he starts flirting with someone else instead.
In less than five minutes, there he was, arms crossed, big smile on his face, right in front of me.And, as with all addictions, whether to substances or behaviors, the consequences to the active abuser can be profound. If you're devoted to finding a spouse or long-term partner, a traditional dating website is probably a much better option than Blendr.Rico, a 32-year-old gay guy, had this to say about his experience: Just after a friend introduced me to Grindr, by the end of the first week, without giving it much thought, I'd had three previously unknown sex partners over to my place. If you are in a primary relationship and looking to cheat -- apps likely are your fastest route to sex and potential relationship problems. He can't let you go because letting go of you is letting go of something very symbolic to him. Letting go of the thrill of having a new person be attracted to you. Here's the thing, Safarigirl: He'll keep flirting with you. Marrying you would be just as much a problem for him as marrying his wife seems to be.