CD doesn’t see dressing up as a tool to gain excitement many just do it as they want to. I need to dress up as I want to now what happens if I stop myself I have inner tormoil and distress inside as I am not carrying out what I want to do and is right to do.Sex has nothing to do with it at all many will say this and is true. I have underwear fetish and cross dress sometimes you say.
When I got older I would but my own clothes as the urge got stronger. She knows I wear her panties but she is not aware of how much I desire to wear her dresses.
As I tell-it-like-it-is, based upon my understanding in my work with real people. That’s why many men masturbate when wearing female clothes.
Thank you for your feedback, and again, for sharing your story. Karen Ruskin Reply I respect your choice but as a woman , I would like thé man I date to be upfront early on the relationship . Cross dressing is something i dont want in a mate . Not sure if crossdressers all have high sex drive, which causes them to be able to be excited by things others find uninterested.
The only ones who rejected me were my mom and step-dad (Made me sad for a while, but I got over it.) And I still have to get around to telling my girlfriend…… I am so glad to hear that you feel my article is, as you worded it: “extremely accurate”, as per your own life experience. That is not why we are separating, many issues, though the fact that he didn’t tell me until years into our marriage and didn’t take into account it was a turn off for me, as much as it is a turn on for him, didn’t help. I tried very hard to accept it, and went beyond my own comfort level to make him happy. As you commented, we all need to be true to ourselves and being in a marriage means compromise. I think crossdressing for some men originates from the nature of sexual behavior of men.
I always try my best to educate, even if it is not what others are sharing. Reply I have underwear fetish and cross dress sometimes. The desire for wearing female clothes, especially sexy underwear, has the same origin as the impetus for sexual penetration.