En español | In the course of my work as a sex and relationship educator, I frequently run workshops about dating after age 50.My audiences are people who are motivated enough to show up at such an event — but scared silly about diving into a dating world they hadn't even thought about for decades!It's my job not only to teach them some new skills about dating, but to calm their fears.
Ask questions; help them be comfortable with you, and then reciprocate.
All of those things can be "fixed"; they have solutions that we can band together with our spouse to overcome.
But an affair is the relationship equivalent of pouring Roundup on fresh, green grass; it kills everything around it.
Meeting new prospects before you're emotionally prepared can feel infinitely worse than sitting home alone every Saturday night. If you agree with all of them, go forth and conquer.
If not, pay attention to those areas you need to work on. "I'm totally over my previous relationship." In order to be really available, you must be absolutely ready to move past your previous love and devote yourself to another person.