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They watched me, sometimes together and sometimes separate." When the couple finally got pregnant and received the results of the gender test, "They made a video of them opening the envelope together and sent it to me that day, and they named their little girl Eevie Juliet." It's not that crazy to imagine this kind of intimacy and fondness developing between long-distance friends over years—what's surprising is that these connections grew out of a form of sex work.But to him, taking shots of me during video chat sex without my permission was no different than me sending dirty sexting photos to him. It's been two years now, and I still grapple with this question. This story first appeared on Ravishly.com, an alternative news culture website for women, as part of its anonymous Confession series. But it taught me one thing: My sexting made me vulnerable to personal violation. He gave me his shirt that I still wear -- it's stupid comfortable -- but my addiction was over. And yet, despite this revelation, I haven't been able to give up on video chat sex. But this level of emotional investment is exactly where the appeal of webcams resides—it's not like any other kind of porn.It's real, it's live, it's interactive, and it's relationship-based.